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The bad ones do very common things – lie, cheat, become violent, ignore consent. Part of it, though, is because it’s just easier to talk about. Every single day I come across someone who dropped every bit of common sense in the name of submission – these people need to hear and read the warnings about shitty wannabes who think that throwing out an order and smacking an ass equal Dominance. So today we’re talking about what makes a good Dominant.Īnyone who talks about BDSM and D/s spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants. You can also follow me on Twitter or stalk John Brownstone at. Come back often and feel free to add the podcast to your favorite RSS feed or iTunes (once we’re approved). The Loving BDSM podcast is produced every Friday for your kinky pleasure and education and show notes are found at. If this is your first time listening, then thanks for coming. (John Brownstone has promised to make an appearance soon, and I’m holding him to it! Just not today.) Welcome to the Loving BDSM podcast. Today we’re talking about what a good Dominant looks like. You’re listening to the Loving BDSM podcast: episode 3. We’ll answer you directly but we’ll also maintain your anonymity when we discuss it on the show.

Some traits include patience, thoughtfulness, stability, and focus – among others.Īs always, if you have a question you want answered on the podcast or a topic suggestion, you can always contact me or John Brownstone.

“Good” has nothing to do with looks, gender, sexuality, race, or any other physical characteristic.Kayla doesn’t like the term “true” Dominant.The warnings about the bad Dominants are important but we should also celebrate the good Dominants.

They don’t have all the same traits and everyone wants and needs something a little different, but if your Dominant possesses even a few of these traits, you’ve probably got yourself a good one. Instead of focusing on the bad Doms, this episode celebrates the good ones out there. This week’s topic: what does a good Dominant look like? And no, we’re not talking physical features. Kayla Lords hosts the third episode of Loving BDSM. Subscribe: Google Podcasts | Spotify | Stitcher | TuneIn | RSS | More Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 9:28 - 13.3MB)